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Deciphering Semantics of Male Body Language | Understanding Body Language Secrets

// July 13th, 2009 // Body Language

Listen up Cadets today’s briefing is about male body language secrets. I could write an entire thesis on body language as its such a massive and a hugely important aspect of seduction; trust me. Lets start at the basics my young trainees. Females are a sensitive bunch, great isn’t it? The smallest hand gesture, frown, squint of the eye can send a myriad of confusing signals to your female pray, who intern will then decipher these signals and attach meaning to them. Yes, often false meaning but who cares, we are not after a relationship at this stage. If you can master these outbound gestures, become self-aware and broadcast them in the correct context; then you’ll will be way on the way to becoming Captain or even a General of Seduction! So many fail, so many fail in this battle of semantics. I have seen so many lil dweebs mess this stuff up, and as human communication is said to be 90% body language it’s an essential tool in and arsenal of player right? Ill give you an example of a epic fail. A guy walks up to a hot chick in bar, instigates a conversation, its going well; he’s saying all the right things (he’s obviously been reading SS) he thinks he’s in, she’s smiling, laughing at his stories and all seems certain to end well. Suddenly she starts to look at him strangely, her answers are shorter, and she seems more interesting in her girl friends standing near. Finally she makes her excuses and she is gone, forever. The guy is left standing at the bar confused, what did he do wrong he asks? How can come it was all so good, then just fell apart into disaster? This guys is am amateur, he can’t even master his own body language, he needs all the help he can get. You have  poor body language, his body gave away his nervousness, his arms and hands had no comfortable potion; he kept looking back at his buddies. Fatal error! all of this was

perceived by the chick, that he didn’t want to be there; he was nervous and was trying to hide something. To a girl this dude is “creepy, run for the hills”. This poor attempt at hooking up actually happened to a buddy of mine, and was great entertainment for me. Later I gave him a major life lesson in body language, then took her home with me. You must learn to read these signs of female body language, its so important, trust SS on that. Natural physical expressions of stress are hard to hide but with a little work they can be brought under total control. Here are some of my basic body language secrets I use daily.

Entering & Walking Posture

Enter like you own the place! When entering clubs, bars, restaurants or wherever, enter with a smile, hold your head up, place your shoulders back, and stride in confidently. Lean back and relax; you own this place! Be alpha. You’re arms comfortably hang at your sides, assume an open posture, man often shield themselves with their arms when nervous; very obvious to females and seems like the do not wish to be in their company. Look straight at your destination, try not to take notice of any women during your approach to the bar, help desk etc. Great posture will boost your present in a room. Turst in yourself. When walking its important you have great posture. Ever notice how our happy little Goth friends walk? …No? Then I shall tell you, with their heads down, hands in their pockets. They seem completely unapproachable right? For Gods sake keeps your head up, your back straight, but don’t walk like Robocop, keep it natural Soldiers. Trust in what I am telling, stick your chest out and bring your shoulders back. Name a rock star, a sports player, a millionaire… go on! Watch the way any of them walk, all in this way right? Chicks dig it! This stuff may seem obvious, but I see dweebs mess even this simple stuff up all the time, then wonder why women hate them.

Movement & Motion

Keep movement to a minimum, none of us our Mc Hammer right? Nervous men often move around, shuffle their feet, and jerk their bodies like MJ, this sucks don’t ever do it. Guys that are successful with women generally make controlled, deliberate movements. Have you ever seen a confident guy jerking his leg nervously or fidgeting with his fingers like a rapist? No you haven’t private, cos confident guys rule and wouldn’t make such a massive error. By slowing down your movements, women observe you as less threatening, this relays to women that you’re comfortable with your surroundings. Women perceive this is positive, if they see you as comfortable in you own skin, and comfortable in their company, it will go along way in raising your attractiveness to them….get it? Not rocket science is it?

Relax & Focus

Secrets to my body language success is my relaxed blasé’ attitude to women, I appear very laid back even when I am not. Trust me women love to work for what they want, they do not place a premium on something they have attained with ease. Make their seduction of you a challenge; don’t appear to be too interested in them right? Lean back and relax, when sitting with girls, assume a very relaxed posture, lean back in your chair, let your arms hang and never shield yourself with your hands. Crossing you arms make you seem like your hiding something. Please have a little thought about what you blurt out too; too many dudes do so well, before they create a verbal massacre, don’t commit suicide think before you speak Cadets.

Special Awareness

Become larger than life! This is a strange one yet seems to work time after time. When in any situation try to take up as much room as possible. For our chunky colleagues this isn’t an issue, but for you smaller framed dudes out there, this is vital, trust in what i am telling you! Spread your arms, stand with wide legs, get in peoples way. If you’re in a sitting position lean back and kick your legs as far in front of yourself as possible. This is a total territorial thing, you ever notice animals puff themselves up to exert their dominance? I tried this in a dentist waiting room once, and some one actually gave up their appointment for me, unbelievable huh? Make yourself larger than life, this will turn heads; get you noticed and people move out of your way, you are alpha. What will happens next I hear you ask? People who see you taking up space will automatically assume you to be the alpha in the room, and that your the most laid back and fun! Trust me, give it a go!

Be Caim, Be Indifferent

Appear bored with what ever women say. Indifference is one of my secret weapons! Never show too much emotion or interest at any given moment. Guys that are over emotional and over enthusiastic appear to have little-self control, and control of the situation you are both in, instant turn off, avoid doing this Cadets, be indifferent!

Vocal Tonality

Listen, record and mimic. Surly this is just ‘speaking’ I hear you shout. Tonality falls more under body language than anything else. Think about it, if you’re a fast speaker slow that shit down Soldier, you sound like a douche bag on speed, women cant understand you!! If you talk too laud, or too quite adjust that dial, ask a buddy if you’re too stupid to hear the volume of your own voice. Talking slower relays confidence with what you are saying, and yourself.  You stutter your fucked, go get help, a voice box transplant, talk through a proxy I dunno, sort it out today! Stammers, or stutters are a HUGE sign of nervousness. I also use vocal tonality to take control of groups, talk over competitors, shut people down, and boost girls confidence, ill talk more about this in more detail later. Project messages subconsciously through body language. This is the stuff you can project, under the radar, below the frequency of female perception, and we all know those little devils can pick stuff up stuff haven’t even thought about yet. I call body language lying with your body, master it and you’ll master the art of seduction, happy hunting!

SS